How to beat a female player

A lot of guys are to fucking soft for their own good. And an alpha female more or less will eat them up and spit them out. Alpha females normally exhibit traits that are much like a man’s. They like sex they are secure in their sexuality and they’re attractive. Sometimes though these alpha females can be players. Its these girls that take a dude for a emotional roller coaster and then drop him off puke all over his shirt and his hair all jacked up. Don’t be one of these guys. Let Keys show you the way. INSIDE

“A reputation for honesty gives you the cover to practice all manner of deception.”
– Unnamed con-artist.

if you meet one of these playerettes here is what you do.

1. do not form any emotional affection or attatchment to them. If you do like them let them form the emotional affection or attraction.

2. know she is a player and expect anything else.

3. teach this girl what playing is all about.

“The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy.”
– Robert Greene, The 48 Laws Of Power, 1998

Let her make all the major moves.
Play hard to get.
Do not show any affection
become a challenge

Start off by showing a little interest – then back off and make her come to you. When she comes to you, show interest again, then back off.

leave abruptly

Early on, never bring up questions about her feelings for you or your present “relationship”. And if she brings these kinds of questions up, change the subject

keep backing off and make her keep coming to you. That’s the basic system to it, and it’s the same system that clever women have been using since the dawn of time to make guys fall for them. Remember that the next time she says she’s going to call and then she doesn’t. Then remember to never give her the opportunity to say she’ll call – tell her that YOU WILL CALL HER, and be sincere, and then DON’T call. Wait a couple days, or whatever you think is called for.

True shyness has no part in your act. You’ll often get ahead though, by being able to fake it. At this point, it’s no longer shyness but an offensive weapon: By showing shyness, you give off a sense of innocence, which for some scandalous women is too hard to resist.

Put on an innocent act whenever you’re around her, and then when you finally get with her, continue afterwards to act innocent. This whole time that you’re acting innocent don’t show any feelings of attachment or affection, even after getting with her on more than one occasion. None. Absolutely no feelings.

If you do this right, you can seriously cause this girl to become obsessed with you. Because she can’t explain your lack of feelings. You begin to overwhelm her thoughts. You’re innocent – she therefore assumes you’re naive – and she thinks that you should have had feelings for her developing since day one.

Innocent yet untouchable can be an extremely effective combination.

In the end you can either keep this up or hit it and quit it. Either way you just played a playerette.

In my honest opinion Call her on being a player and go spend your time on a girl that wants more than games and attention, but if you want that notch on your belt. That badge to wear around that tells everyone you played a player… than go for it, but never never never show affection or concern cause if you do she will eat you alive and leave you a helpless afc chasing her sent. All she will leave you is the feeling of being alone.



19 thoughts on “How to beat a female player

  1. daniel says:

    I have been a player for almost 4 years. And in those 4 years I had a lote of women players. And I know the secret of breaking there hearts if you want to learn more email me. Or invite me on bbm 222fffc0.

  2. been doin it says:

    All of that is nice info for a new wanna be player “trying” to do her thing. However for a seasoned female player its garbage. A true player is only going to do what she wants to do to begin with, including have sex with a male. What will u have played if she did exactly what she wanted???? As far the play innocent role, thats one of a playerettes major tactics and game peep game. Read art of seduction by the same author and get an insight in behaviorism.

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  4. Thorned Rose says:

    Sweetie, I have been I VERY succesfull player for over 10 years ( started v young) and that stuff would not work on a true player. If you tried that with me I would see right through it and either get bored of you or see it as a challeng. You best hope it’s the first as if I saw it as a challenge I would break you. I always get the ones I’m after.

  5. Rawad Wen says:

    People think if your a player, you are an important person. At the psychological level, players are people who are afraid of commitment and do not know what they want exactly from a relationship, and usually they become like this after being hurt at young age from a relationship, they develop a what is called a pain body.

    My advice to all the ladies and gents, is to write on a piece of paper what you want in a partner and a relationship. As well guys do not hurry a relationship, love have no opposite, and if you hurry, know it is not based from your freedom, but from your ego attachment and need, and this will create a horrible relationship for both of you.

    The struggle comes from resistance of the ego and fear of commitment, playing games at the ego level, may get you into a relationship. But the question how solid is this relationship, and how much are you happy with it, and can this relationship stand with the face of change in life.

    Players are the one who are actually playing themselves before playing others.

    Relationships are lessons so date more, and learn how to treat your partner and what is love, and that way you can decide what to choose in life. Thank a player, thank all your x’s for they have taught you what you want and do not want, and what relationships should be.

  6. Matthew says:

    Well, I’m not really sure who is or has been played, but I am currently in a relationship with a well seasoned player. She had her hand in helping me to leave my wife and best friend of 14 years, 3 adorable young children, give up my business of 4&1/2 years thtat was beginning to be successful, my home that I had been renting for almost as long as I was in business and about ready to give up on life. She nearly killed me. I was almost gone, believing her lies. Allowing her to twist the truth.around. Allowing her to twist me around. I knew from the start she was bad news, yet, I fell into the trap anyways, never having been involved in a relationship with such a hurtful creature. Here I am,more than 1&1/2 years into this craziness and still, I am with her. The thought has crossed my mind to get even, but then I think, how will that solve anything? It won’t. Only continue the cycle. Continue the worlds current sickness. standing true to my values,remaining “innocent and unaware” is, of coarse, my defence or strategy. However, this is how I would be anyway even if I had no knowledge of her wrong doings.She still pleads the 5th or sticks to her lies about people,places and or activity when anything is brought up, using anger to cover her bull shit and to attempt to “control” our conversations. I really had no idea of what to expect when all of this first started despite friends family,neighbors,customers and so on attempted to warn me. Multiple times………I’m still not sure what I should do and there are many horrible fights she started so she could take flight on me. She now seems to genuinely care about me, but I’m not sure if it’s just to hurt me agAin or if she really is trying to help me out of the rut she shoved me into……time will tell I suppose….in the meantime, I continue to force her to be accountable for her actions, remain firm in my innocence and continue to give her trust that she does not deserve. I am the one who, perhaps may yet tame the beast. Bring sense to the devil herself. (Twice, she even admitted to that when I strategically asked her directly for her name, then after no response asked if she were the devil.that’s when she replied “Yes Matt, I am the devil!”
    Who says that?!!? Oh, that’s right, a twisted bitch bearing a tatoo on her hip of a cracked and broken heart made of the word “BROKEN” trying to seek revenge on Any and all men for whatever happend to her so many years ago by some ass hole or groupe of ass holes…
    Oh, by the way she is a skinny blond haired, blue eyed Ukrainian hotty who didn’t move to USA till 17 years old. And im done! Whew!

    • You need to steel your nerves and ditch this woman. Because nothing good will come of your relationship with this person. There’s to many red flags to count and she’s a manipulator. You’d be surprised on how quickly you can get over a bad relationship. Most folks don’t realize that a normal brain will become numb to the loss of something important in about 30 days. Then the pain is more a memory around the 90 day mark and you move on from there. You never forget but you’ll be in a much more satisfying spot in life when you ditch and go NO CONTACT to this self proclaimed “devil”. Any woman that tells you she’s messed up. BELIEVE her. Do what you know needs to be done and use this blog to support your decision.

  7. Vin says:

    Wow this is the place that I have been looking for. I have been played for a year , not sure if I’m manipulated or used. As far as I know my heart is hurt having this relationship with this girl.

    I just want to thank you for being here , I thought I’m alone in this thing

  8. roancasa says:

    I thought I was a clever guy. Never is too late to realized that we are human. The same situation is My case. I Think I’ve been played by this girl who is pretty, have a great body, a master in sex and shows a lot of feelings for me, but My instruct tell me that she’s looking other options. As a man My instict tell me she’s doing It and clever as she is she disguise me with other situations. The point is our situation snare very complex and more than complex. She have a boyfriend and Im married(not to happy for a Long time. Long time before I met Her).
    I’ve been trying to let Her out of My mind but I Think Im Weak at The moment. This relation is going on for a year and a month.
    Should I just cut with Her or just play what you explain in The article. Thanks!

  9. Christian F says:

    Ok, great.
    So here is my story.After being tormented by my ex wife for several years and going through very emotional breakdowns which was all caused by our divorce and she trying to alienate me from kids… I’ve met a younger lady….. She was 35 I was 43, this was back in Oct 2015 living by myself and self employed and sharing custody of my 9 years old beautiful little girl.
    Everything started like this : As a part of therapeutical help I was stopping by some buddy’s places to talk and get a little attention. In one of these places there was a lady that I knew for several years. One day, her youngest daughter stopped by and she totally engaged with me and had a few beers and talk and she asked me about this and that and I was totally dozed by her. Next thing you know we exchanged numbers. We went out twice and starting to have wild sex. I was like wow, she is awesome but after 14 years of marriage I started to asker more things about her…She was never married and no kids …. As the time goes by she is telling me that she was living there with her mom temporarily cause she was going back to the UK. She is originally from there. She came over to the US at the age of 16. And her story was that she just finished with an abusive relationship with this guy….and she wanted to start a fresh new life in the UK after not being lucky with anybody here in the US, which was already suspicious and by the way I’ve never seen that flying ticket she said she had ???? Anyways at the same time I had to to see my parents in Argentina and by Dec 2015 I’ve felt for her and told her to house sit for me since her staying in the mothers house was not pleasant so she agreed. Once I’ve came back from South America she said I’ve felt in love with you and I’m not living to the UK so we started living together. I’ve started to teach her about my business but she was very good and enthusiastic but also shady about other thing, like when we were going out places she was meeting with guys that they were amazed to see her and I was always like who was that ? And she always had a good and short story…. Also she said that she had no friends not even girlfriends after being in the US for 20 years ?? Then she had not expressions of feelings but she was kind of oh we should buy this or that….and you are my perfect match and we going to holding hands until the end of time … Too many red flags but me I was dozed by her. I even feel stupid now writing this. Anyways I made the point of respecting and loving my daughter since the beginning and she did very good .. I was witnessing a lot bonding in between them so that was compensating all the other red flags. We kept on going I’ve help her getting a better car. She ve finished her online MBA degree We were living in a really nice gated community in SW FL and then because of her demand of things I’ve told her to look for a job if she wanted to get more stuff and also pay her loan back which was like 48,000.00 So she did. Then because of my parents health problems I had to go back to country of origin ( August 2017) and stayed there for a few months. Things were complicated there. When I’ve got back she is acting differently. I can feel my instincts. She is even dressing differently. Keeping her new phone by her side at all the time and all of that start to create arguments and me being suspicious and having lack of trust. I started to look back to tied flags. Towards the end we went to the end of the year party of her new job and she was flirting in front of me with her new male co-workers. I gave her all of my love and loyalty and told her I the beginning that I was not for marriage neither kids. And she even agreed and said it was ok because at that point of her life it was also too late. However at the end after several arguments she left me and my daughter and did not even care of talking to my girl which she was already seeing her as a step mother…. Not even a phone call to her to explain or say goodbye. Pure coldness …
    One day after the separation I’ve talked to her about doing therapy for couples since she had already health insurance from her new job… She did not care a bit. Not interest… No feelings at all….
    Since I’ve been talking to good friends and older people about this, we all got to conclusion that she was a playette female. She had an agenda. It was completed and over.
    It totally broke my heart and my daughters as well, cause it was like she have vanished.
    She went to live with one of her sister again cause she has been there before and she has another sister that also have her at that place as well before in between other relationships. After all this I found a credit bureau report she have left behind along with other items and I was shock….
    She had changed more than 22 different cell numbers in the last past 15 years, several e mail addresses and a large number of home addresses which I did not even know any of those cause she had lied to me.
    She left and then she call and said we can still be friends as soon as I told that we need to disconnect 100% she hung up on me.
    I’ve tried to reach for the mother… No response and none of the other family members neither care of us working it out ?
    Was she was professional Con Artist…. ???
    How can someone tell you I love you more anything in the world several times…. But nothing else. They were some many times that I was talking about future and telling her beautiful things about us and I had not feelings back…. And those were the red flags that I did not wanted to accept ..
    Please tell me what you think.
    Thank you.

  10. Christian F says:

    Hi Keys, it’s me again. First of all your blog is amazing !!!! How much info and positiviness, I’ve been reading a lot today. Congrats!!!
    I just want to add some other things about my post above here, because I saw a lot of the red flags you have mention in all the other topics in your Blog, like
    During the 2 years living together she has never exposed any pics of us at any social media even though she has 2 different Facebook accounts ?
    She was always refusing taking pics together saying that she was not good on pictures ?
    She had never took any selfies of us together on her own.
    she was not much of holding hands or showing affection in public, all of that you said ….
    Anyways the other day on Valentine’s she texted me Happy Velentines ????
    After 2 months almost she went away, cause she walked away from our home right before Christmas.
    Me being sarcastic and stupid I’ve replied …. Do you want to celebrate ?
    Then she texted back … We can on the weekend which was this past weekend and I dint even hear from her but I already went into the No Contact Mode.
    As I’m typing this to you she has texted me sorry I dint texted you.
    She is playing a mind game big time on me.
    Shoul I just block her ?

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