Use the Bartender To increase your social status

Social Status is life’s form of a cheat code that one would use in a game like (killzone 2). Basically social status in a nutshell is using your attractive friends which are women for the most part to attract other women to you. The theory is simple but what if you don’t have any attractive female friends to hang out with? Or worse what happens if you don’t have ANY female friends to hang out with. No worries let me teach you a sneaky way to make you seem more desirable.

When I was first breaking out of my shell I used this method a lot. Unfortunately this is the least active method at getting women one can possibly use so it should be used in conjunction with all the other tips here to work effectively.

A bar is a social place and in a bar are employees, employees that are all getting paid about 3 bucks an hour and will do just about anything within their means or reason to get some good tips. A good bartender can be a man or a woman, but since this is a men’s blog we’ll center on women bartenders. Women bartenders if the establishment is reputable will range from relatively attractive to drop dead gorgeous. These women love getting tips and if you’re a good tipper they will favor you first but they will also remember you when you come back into the bar. The trick here is to make them see you as a cool guy somebody they can talk to during the slow times. So start up a conversation with them when they’re within ear shot of you. Make them laugh (incorporate enough of what you learn here on this site and you could go home with one). Be sure to remember her name, and make sure she remembers yours within weeks or months depending how often you frequent the bar that she works at she will identify you in the crowd say what’s up and serve you up your drink of choice sometimes they will even throw a free drink or shot your way.

Now how does one use that to their advantage? Simple when you go on a drink date with the girl you’ve managed to game up take her to the bar which you frequent and sit down.. the bartender will come over say “hey” ask you how things have been and serve you up drink one for you one for your lady.

The more bartenders you know the better because while they’re in a downtime they will more than likely come over to talk to you for a bit to be courteous and then wander off to finger themselves or whatever it is female bartenders do when they disappear for an extended amount of time.

The point is having attractive women who guys drool over on a nightly basis come over to you, say what’s up laugh with you and play flirt with you show other women around you that you’re an interesting individual and make it a little easier to approach that one woman you’ve had your eye one. And if you’re with a date it’ll make her wonder what you’re REALLY about. This in turn will make you a mystery, which in turn will make you a challenge, which in turn will give you the power which means friend you call the shots. And all this for the price of some employee doing their job the way their supposed to.

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